The woman dubbed the most ‘wanted’ girlfriend has spoken out about a major dating mistake many single women continue to make — one that even ties into deeper issues of emotional wellness, relationship boundaries, and the psychological cost of dating burnout.
A model based in London has declared herself the ‘world’s most wanted girlfriend’ after receiving an overwhelming 5,000 applications from men eager to date her — a viral moment that not only sparked conversations about dating culture, but also hinted at the growing pressure women feel to maintain their mental health while navigating modern relationships.
Vera Dijkmans, 27, set social media abuzz when she announced she was accepting applications from potential partners.
Despite the flood of interest, only three men met her exceptionally high standards — a filtering process that echoes the importance of setting boundaries, a key theme in chronic stress management and personal wellness plans increasingly recommended by therapists and private health insurance providers.
Although she received a massive response, Vera ultimately did not find love through the process.
With over seven million followers across different social media platforms, she remains one of the most sought-after influencers online — and as her platform grows, so does the importance of managing digital fatigue, wellness coaching, and even therapy coverage under maternity or emotional health insurance policies, especially for women facing constant online exposure.
