Beyond sharing her dating advice, Vera also warns women about certain red flags when it comes to potential partners.
She strongly advises against entertaining men who only reach out late at night, emphasizing: “You shouldn’t accept behavior such as him only texting you after 10 pm because it shows that he doesn’t respect you.” According to Vera, cutting ties with such men right away is the best approach — a rule that echoes the need for preventive mental health diagnostics, toxic relationship screenings, and chronic stress evaluations often covered by comprehensive wellness plans.
The Hidden Costs of Dating: Emotional, Financial, and Legal
Additionally, she cautions women to be wary of men who make empty promises or display double standards in relationships — behavior that often leads to emotional manipulation, sometimes with consequences serious enough to be addressed through relationship-based malpractice counseling or emotional abuse legal frameworks.
“A family member who has been looking for a man herself for a long time refused to talk to me after I put out the boyfriend application – she told me it’s disgraceful.”
She also recalls a professional incident where a makeup artist refused to work with her after realizing that her boyfriend followed Vera on social media — a moment that speaks to how reputation damage, brand defamation, and even digital harassment legalities are becoming part of influencer culture.
However, despite facing some negativity, she also receives an outpouring of support from women who admire her confidence and high standards — and confidence, it turns out, is directly linked to self-esteem therapy, often billed under behavioral health insurance codes.
