9. “Get good tips as a waitress/waiter without REALLY trying.” “I’m a man who works as a server. Additionally, I think I look quite well myself.
After 20 years of service, I’ve gotten really good at it. I put a lot of effort into my work, I connect with people, I charm them, and I always receive great feedback and comments.
My coworker who works as a model and is a terrible waiter earns the same amount of tips as me. “For a while, I had a buddy who was a pretty waitress and bartender and she was totally unaware of this truth.
‘If you work hard, you will make out extremely well’ was the central theme of her whole universe. Therefore, if someone was whining about poor tips, they obviously didn’t put in much effort.
You didn’t put in enough effort if you were whining about how difficult it was to get a decent job that paid enough to live on.
Every night, she might earn $300 in under-the-table tips just by showing up for work. midway through the week.
