The concept of “the one” does not exist. Relationships that would normally succeed are destroyed by this poisonous notion.
People may or may not get along with you. Additionally, there are marital ideals that you must adhere to in order to succeed.
People use the excuse that they just weren’t soulmates to justify their noncompliance with these guidelines. It’s a tragedy.
Personally, I don’t think that “the one” exists; instead, I think that, like anything else, choices must be made.
There are several factors that influence our choice of spouse, ranging from appearance to comfort level.